My secret?

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“How long have you blogged?”
“How can you be consistently posting and updating your blog?”

I was being asked on these questions recently. I think a lot of people felt surprise that I had been doing this since… once upon a time? Is there a secret behind it? Well, not really. I think the main thing is being disciplined and stick to your plan and work things out. It’s not easy, but yet it’s not impossible.

My current workflow is pretty simple:

  1. Write on my phone whenever there’s any idea that come across my mind.
  2. Develop the idea into full post bits by bits. Usually I’ll be doing this when I’m commuting, waiting or whenever I’m free.
  3. Let the writings sit for awhile. Usually a few days. Come back later and read through them again. Sometimes post may get deleted and never see the light, sometimes I may rewrite the whole post.
  4. Once it’s done, I’ll upload the draft post onto wordpress and make further formatting and adjustments as necessary.
  5. Schedule a date and time to post the blog post. WordPress will automatically post on my behalf when the time comes.
  6. The key is to build up backlog of posts, so you can play around rearranging their posting dates, and also it gives you time to slowly think and write about your next post.

Yup, that’s about it. Nothing fancy, and nothing difficult actually. For now I have set my limit to 1 post a week, I “just” need to crunch out 52 posts per year… which I think is still manageable as of now. Will I ever feel tired and wanted to give up? Of course I do, occasionally. During the lows, I try not to force myself to think and write too much. With sufficient backlog, I should be able to get through the lows and start writing again.

What will be the future of this blog? Well, I wonder, but we’ll see how it goes and for those who actually read my blog, thank you. Till then.

33

Just crossed 33 years old mark a few days ago. As usual, birthday or not, it really means nothing to me. Perhaps I had grew too old, too used, or perhaps too tired to bother anymore? I wonder… Recently there were quite a lot of changes and things going on in my life that I need to deal with, to digest, to overcome, and perhaps… to resolve.

New job has started, my lifestyle perhaps will require some adjustment as well, I’m still figuring things out and hopefully things will get ironed out soon. I got my wisdom teeth extracted earlier this year, and I had also performed cornea strengthening operation and Lasik on both of my eyes earlier this month. Hopefully in terms of health and wellbeing, I’ll be in a better position this year. Also, I need to start training harder and preparing myself for my coming trip. Stay tuned for that.

Speaking about trip, I travelled to Taipei at the end of March. Nothing much, just a short getaway to recharge myself prior to my new job. Didn’t shoot much photos actually, I wonder if I had lost my interest to photography or I’m just too tired? Will have to see in the days to come. Overall, it was a nice trip despite I had been to Taipei previously. The people and the food were nice and welcoming.

What else… dropped my phone and cracked the screen, still feeling lost while pondering about my life, got accused and misunderstood on something by someone… I thought all these would bother me much, but in the end they didn’t. I wonder if I had mastered “the art of let it go” or “the subtle art of not giving a fxck”? Perhaps when you get older you do get a little wiser?

Alright, enough of rant and is time to work harder for the remaining days of 2019. Can’t believe April is ending… need to work on the remaining items on my to-do list. Till then.

Perhaps people has stopped thinking…


Netflix has released a new series titled “Tidying up with Marie Kondo”. Marie Kondo is well known for her methodology in tidying up spaces, and she has been quite famous in the East with social media presence and her book titled “The life-changing magic of tidying up”. This series has brought her fame to the Western world, and of course, one can expect a whole lot of buzz about her recently.

There were those who thank her as they regained their life by tidying up their home using the KonMari method. And there were those who cast doubt on her and gave their opinion about her method. Well, I’m not exactly a fan of her, though I do get to know about her technique quite awhile ago. Some of them were applied in my life and I found them to be useful, and my quality of life has improved because of that. Less clutter, less junk at home, leading to a better living environment. What’s not great about it?

Well, there are those who are skeptical about her method, and I feel that it’s okay to disagree on her method. For me, when I was learning her method, I try to take in everything taught by her, and then I’ll start to think and make sense of them, and I’ll interpret them and apply them in a way that works for me. I won’t follow everything blindly. The same goes to other knowledge and learnings, such as photography skills.

The common responds I saw online are those who dismissed the method all together without even trying to understand further, or even giving it a try. And there are those who said her method is toxically encouraging people to throw away stuffs, hence creating more problems than solving. This is where I started to have doubt on whether people do think about something while they are learning them?

Take my case for example, when I tidied stuff from my home and plan to get rid of them, the first thing that came to my mind was whether these items are of any use for others? Some items can actually be sold through channels like ebay or any other local forums, while some items I will post on my social platform and ask if any of my friends actually need it, if yes I will just gave it to them. Lastly, I’ll look for channels where I can actually donate the items to, especially for items such as clothings that can still be used. A lot of time, only few items will end up in the dustbin.

If you only watched the first episode of the series and start commenting… well I guess it just shows how shallow your thinking could be. I’m not defending the KonMari method or whatsoever, I just find these comments… a little stupid. Yes it seems to shown that people are just throwing away stuff in the video, but if you can’t make sense out of information you received, you probably can’t make sense in your comment either. The same goes to many other incidents or topics that has been discussed over the internet lately.

I’m not the smartest people in the world, so above is just my opinion and thoughts. Well, I could be wrong, but it’s always good to have thoughtful exchange of opinions which will spark thinking and learning, rather than just slamming on social media for the likes and shares. Till then.

Wherever I will be…


“I know what I don’t want, but I don’t know what I want.”

This is a typical answer I have as I’m trying to explore and decide on what’s next for me in my career. I have been working in the same industry but different role for the past 8 years, I was hoping to change both role and industry but I know it will be difficult. Perhaps I should look into changing industry first, and that brings me to the question of “which industry?”

I really have no idea and I’m lacking of understanding on some other different industries out there. I have been trying to learn more about them through the course of my study, but there are still a fair bit of unknown to me.

Perhaps the easier way is to get rid of those that I don’t want, I know I don’t want to go into consulting, I know I don’t want to involve in finance related industries… perhaps slowly from there I can have a list of potential industries that I can consider to move into. In terms of job function, the same applies.

What’s next? I wonder. Let’s see what the future offers. This is a troubling phase, but once I get over it, hopefully things will eventually get better. Till then.

The fear of “don’t know”

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People who act like they know everything and wanted to comment on everything… we will bump into this kind of people once in awhile, don’t we? Or perhaps we are one of them?

Looking back, I was once behaving like this as well in the older days. Fear of being left out, fear of missing out in the conversation, fear of being alienated, so I will talk and act like I knew about it when I wasn’t. There were times when I got by, there were times when I screwed up of course.

In the end, I reflected and thought: What for I need to feel the fear? If I don’t know about it, just ask, and then I will be able to learn more about it. The conversation will still continue. For things that I don’t know, I’ll try not to comment too much on it. 

The same goes to every other thing… be it work related, photography related or life related matters. The moment you acknowledged you “don’t know”, you emptied yourself to absorb more. Hence, there’s nothing to fear anymore. Just open up your heart and mind, and fill it up with knowledge you would have lost when you act like you knew.